You have nothing to worry about because whatever problem you are faced with ends with a solution. (That is the nature of a problem. The solution is not separate from it, but the other part of it, just as up and down define each other.) You either fix it and continue with your plans, or the problem destroys the current trajectory of your life and you head off on another path. One set of solutions is positive, the other negative, but one way or another, the problem is solved.

In most cases, no matter how bad the problem you are faced with seems, for some reason you evolved a powerful instinct to survive, and that is going to be what drives you to solve your problem and go on with life. But you know that at some point, in all likelihood, you’ll meet a problem which resolves itself in your death. You may hate admitting that, but there is no getting around it (that I know of), and when you die you won’t have the problem anymore, and the world may mourn you but it will certainly go on, until one day it dies and it will be as if you and everyone else never were.

This doesn’t mean “Don’t worry.” Worrying is natural, so is sadness, grief… When the worry turns to a fear that consumes us, having faith that everything will be okay is the relief. Existence is a strange blend, a state where opposites are inextricably linked, and it’s just going to do its thing. Existence is going to be violent and peaceful, happy and sad, black and white, up and down, off and on, everything and nothing, the same as it always has. Whatever God is, your existence now is proof positive that God will take care of you, God will always find a place for you to be or not to be.

Worrying and being able to solve your problems are really just tricks you play to engage your interest until you come to the point where you can no longer find things interesting or boring.

When I get depressed, these are the thoughts that pass the time now, because generally I get depressed about things that don’t need me to directly worry about my survival or comfort. I think, “Now I am in the trough of the wave,” and I think about the ocean of crests and troughs to come. But there is a time and a place for this sort of passivity, and you’ll know it when your mind insists on it out of exhaustion. Just because everything will certainly be OK doesn’t mean you should squander, give up, or ignore the faculties you have that can help you deal with your problems.

"May we never let the things we can't have, or don't have, or shouldn't have, spoil our enjoyment of the things we do have and can have. As we value our happiness let us not forget it, for one of the greatest lessons in life is learning to be happy without the things we cannot or should not have."

女人，长得漂亮不如活得漂亮 =)